The journey of 20s, passion, routine, motivation and scripts that appears to us in the right time

Good morning,

Lately, I been reading in different topics such as:

Busy brain syndrome, quarter-life crises, how to stay motivated at work or studies, and many other topics in a similar areas hoping to find answers to my endless questions.

Lately , I don’t feel motivated to write articles for my blog, nor I am the “bookworm” who used to read everything that falls into her hands and I truly feel that I want to have an adventure or start a new journey.

Yesterday while roaming around Pinterest I found this interesting picture:

create and meet goals

I completely agree with this, I do start my day with a To Do List of my tasks but I don’t always reward my self. It might be this cycle of routine and lack of passion that I am going through lately, I feel that I need to gain back my Pixie dust and start working on something completely new. When I remember myself a year ago or even 5 years ago when I was a college student I was so passionate about certain things and so enthusiastic to do new things but routine can kill this passion.

Earlier today I read an article that arrived in the right time which encouraged me to start writing this post:

 30 Things I’ve Learned About Work So Far by Bianca Bass

Four years ago, I was an unpaid intern at Vogue and today I manage a talented copywriting team at TripAdvisor. How did I get there? Well, let’s just say it’s been one hell of a journey and I’m only getting started. Here are some of the things I’ve learned along the way…

  1. Show up every single morning like you’re meant to be there. You got the job for a reason, you know.
  2. Busy is a choice, stressed is a choice, overworked is a choice.
  3. Having clothes you feel confident in is important. You’ll feel better and, in turn, you’ll work better. Invest in some good basics. You’ll easily earn the money back further down the line.
  4. Never tell your boss you can’t do something. You can, I promise. Say you’ll figure it out and then do so. A can-do attitude will have a big impact on the trajectory of your career.
  5. One word: sleep.
  6. Seriously though, there’s nothing successful about sleep deprivation. Feeling well-rested and ready for work is real #goals.
  7. Make work BFFs, but don’t get too involved with the office drama du jour.
  8. Keep a record of all of your accomplishments and achievements from day one on a new job. You’ll be glad you did.
  9. Celebrate every tiny victory.
  10. No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up. On your off days, make extra effort with your hair/outfit/choice of lipstick for yourself — somehow, it helps.
  11. Everyone you work with — good or bad — is indirectly mentoring you, all the time.
  12. There is so much to be learned from observing the capable and the incompetent.
  13. Stop apologizing for everything. A delayed response to an email or not being able to work late again doesn’t warrant an apology.
  14. But do take ownership when you truly mess up — people will only respect you more for it.
  15. You’re doing so much better than you think.
  16. When you’re starting out, switching employers every year or so is a good thing. Go get the salary you deserve, stat.
  17. Having money in a savings account is the difference between freedom and having to stay in a job you hate because of financial constraints. It’s that simple.
  18. Never get complacent. Even if you love your job, keep your LinkedIn updated and your mind open to other opportunities, always.
  19. The single best question you can ask when being interviewed is: “What is your biggest problem and how can I solve it?” Thank me later.
  20. And once you get the job? Keep asking it.
  21. Mistakes are healthy. If you’re making mistakes, you’re learning quicker. Don’t be afraid of them. Just try not to make the same one twice.
  22. The most interesting, exciting careers never go exactly to plan. Embrace that.
  23. Holidays are seriously important.
  24. Having fun is seriously important.
  25. Learning more = earning more. Take advantage of your company’s training budget and get involved with free skill sessions like Google’s Digital Garage.
  26. We all have bad days. But no job is worth bad weeks that turn into months.
  27. It pays to be a team player. Get involved.
  28. Times are changing. You don’t get ahead just by doing your job well, you progress by making things happen that are beyond your job description.
  29. No matter how much you achieve, never ever forget what it felt like to be the new intern on his or her first day.
  30. Praising someone else doesn’t steal your shine. It only makes you shine brighter.

Those are the things that Bianca listed and I do agree with many items on this list. I am truly thankful that I saw this article today, in a time where I needed to read something that motivate me.

As Lubna al-Khamis says in her 20th- journey podcast, the most important events in a person’s life occur in the 1920s. Questions like who am I? How do I start and am I in the right job? Am I unique and making a difference in my workplace? I have many goals but I don’t know how to achieve all of them?

Such questions is normal and we are not alone at this stage of the third decade of our life. A decade full of chaos and questions, during which most of the important events of our lives takes place which makes us vulnerable to quarter life crises that affects most of the university graduates who faces reality after their graduation, which was clear and a plan drawn stage, surrounded by professors and mentors who help throughout the journey.

I’m still looking for answers to my questions, but the articles, Ted talks and podcasts helps me in some part of this journey.

Reem


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